Wedding is the one single most important event in your life, and it is natural to want it to be the best one. It is also important to have fun on your day. It is after all your day, so don’t get carried away in all the endless preparations and planning, that when the day comes, you are exhausted.
Planning a perfect date can be a tad bit stressful. Should you bring her flowers? What should you wear? And then there is the most important question of all is where do you take her? Should you take her out? Should you stay in? Should it be fancy? Should it be casual, it start to be a lot of questions and it can become overwhelming.
The outside matters
No matter how much we talk about look don’t matter and all that jazz, the reality is, it does. Especially if this date is your first, you want to dress up for it. Your girl should be proud to be seen with you. Most girls love a well-dressed man, so before you step out of your house to pick up your girl, make sure to look in the mirror for a final check, no wrinkled or stained shirt, no shirt hanging out, no food stuck in your teeth, no beard hair out of place and no dirty, dusty shoes. First impressions is the last impression
Manners
Opening the door for a lady, letting her order first, paying the bill, making her the center of your focus for that one night is not old school. It is the one most sure shot way to make your date a great one. Girls always love a considerate man. Let her know that she is going to be safe with you, it will help build her trust in you.
Generally when we go out on a first date, it is to some place fancy. It shows that you are serious and you don’t mind digging into your pocket a little deeper just for her. Choose a lavish private dining restaurant that allows it guests to have the privacy while they eat. This ensures that you spend some quality time with your date without being distracted and interrupted by the surroundings. You may want to choose a place that also has a cocktail bar, this way you can hang around a little longer for drinks and don’t have to part ways once the dinner is over.
Prepare yourself
Yes it sounds pretty surreal, but it always helps to prepare yourself for certain situations. What will you do if it rains, or what of the restaurant you have booked serves something that she absolutely hates or what if there is an awkward silence during your date. It helps to think up possible scenarios and be prepared on what you are going to do if that scenario arises. Think up conversation topics so you have enough to talk about when you are together.
Dates can go either way. However it ends, if it is the right girl, no matter what you do, the date is bound to go well.
